You Never Married D Rite Person

If we look around closely we may find sumone to be d rite person and feel its d rite time to marry d person. The assumption is tat we ve met the personal needs n we will be happy n become "whole". The ironic truth is that we dun really know what we have decided. ... to marry the person whom we barely know. We tot we marry d rite person but when they change to be someone different, then we r facing d real challenge in marriage. Read this article from The Islam Digest and luv to share since its very interesting n useful info for us. :)https://www.facebook.com/notes/the-islamic-digest/did-i-marry-the-right-person/160877933932794 At d end of d day its all abt to learn to luv strangers, to luv n to care the person whom u married

Money, Power & Influence

If you could choose only one, which one you rather have Money, Power or Influence? And why? Me ... none of the above coz i wd rather choose Health!!! We have had our ups and down in life which i believe sumtimes we may wondered how life will be treating us better with more money, increased influence n attention. Our life will change and probably with higher opportunity to the irresistable level. Money can makes the world go round n let us do lot of things; d best vacation, big house, debt vanish, good food n of course shops till we drop. Leads to unwanted attention where bringing friends n family tat u tot u never have before. At d end money cant buy our luv or bring happiness and ensure us to have healthy life. People with less money can enjoy the simple pleasures of life like sunnrises, sunsets, spending time with family and friends, exercising, reading a good book, watching a movie or live theater. With d difficulty in earning money then it will stop us to spend recklessly. Power is another matter which creates influence n maybe able to ruin lives of others. It' s a dangerous game where becomes toxic to control with the probability to do wrong and to hurt people around u. To me health is given to us n can also be taken away which allows me to enjoy my life. Its gud to be captain of our own boat where gud health allows you to be self-sufficient, independent, responsible and accountable for your own actions. Sucess or failure is in my hand coz me able to control ourselves and ability to change. I am juz glad tat i dun ve any of it; money, power n influence as i believe to be a better person we need to be willing to change by making better choice in doing so.

Ramadhan Mubarak

Realizing it or not. ... so we meet again, ramadhan. This ramadhan however, i think will be more challenging; my maid not back from from her "balik kg" as promised, housework routine, gonna start my semester 5 next week, dead line with assignments to submit and budget 2013 @ workstation. What a big thing!!! Plus my li bujang will be lil travelling to/from keramat & bukit indah daily since no one is looking after him. Its not so much abt hungeriness n thirst but more to control my emotions; anger n impatient. May Allah let me be in peace since its gonna be a hetic month. I hope i am able to do this. ... Six rules of happiness: 1. Don't hate others simply because they have wronged you.  2. Combat worry by having hope in the Almighty and praying excessively.  3. Live simply no matter how high your status may rise.  4. Expect goodness no matter how many tests you may face.  5. Be generous even if you feel a slight loss.  6. Smile, even if your heart may be sad. I know sumtimes its hard to do no. 1 but in my heart i wish tat finally able to reach it. ... Ramadhan Mubarzl to all muslim friends around d world n may Allah grant us health so that we can perform all our duties. P/s : better life n better person